Speed dating for keeps

Ah romance. Love is a uniting force in every culture, and what could be more uniting across cultures than being invited to a wedding while on your travels - especially if it’s a wedding baring some similarity to the story of Romeo and Juliet – but with a happier end. The legend of the Imilchil Marriage Feast is that a young man from one local tribe fell in love with a young woman from another – and vice versa – yet like Romeo and his Juliet they were forbidden to marry and cried themselves to death in lakes of tears. His tears created lake Issly and hers Tisslit. That’s not the happy bit – the happier bit is that the two tribes were so full of regret that they created a special day on which couples from different tribes were allowed to be wed – which is what the festival is about today. If your life view is more pragmatic then you can see it as a smart way to widen the gene pool.

But the really exciting bit is that this is like speed dating for keeps. As a potential bride you’re dressed up in your bridal garb and potential grooms do the rounds meeting you and your family, all of you basically trying to work out – from a few hours of dancing and conversation if you’re going to be a good couple for life. If he puts an offer in for you and you and your family accept then you utter the immortal, binding words ‘You have captured my liver’ and the match is decided - and you're married by the end of the day.

Naturally, whether or not you’re willing to give your liver to your lover there’s some dancing and some eating and drinking to be done and generally a good time to be had by all. More exciting than an episode of Sex and the City.

The annual festival dates are dependent on the harvest so are different each year, but are usually in September.

Read all about it: Marriage Fair listing on WR

Comments

There are no posts. Why not be the first to have your say?

Add a comment

Review title
Your comment
Your rating
Your name
Your email address

 
 

About this author

  • Kat Mackintosh

    The best job in the world and the worst job in the world for someone with itchy feet, I get to talk to all the Experts about th…

Also by this author

Latest travel blog posts

  • Twenty-Four Days of Zen

    I have never felt as vibrantly, emphatically alive as I did on February 27th, over a lunch of baby corn with chicken and rice.

  • Electronics while Traveling… A Burden or a Blessing??

    “What the %#*! Electronics am I going to bring on this trip??”

  • Travel Movie Memories

    I have read a lot of posts about movies that inspire travel. I love movies and yes there is an endless list of movies that promote a country, inspire an adventure in us all and offer us a glimpse into life in another country.

  • Beautiful Quebec City, A Winter Wonderland

    There is no city more beautiful in the middle of Winter than Quebec City. Dave filmed there a few years ago for the Christmas movie Blizzard with Whoopie Goldberg and Christopher Plumber. If it is a magical enough setting for a Hollywood holiday film, it

Subscribe to newsletter Add an experience Share